give this a read

[Chuzzle2006]

I found this to be a good article. I know it isn't going to apply to everyone..but maybe some. Please read and think about it.

http://www.violentacres.com/archives/169/most-people-are-depressed-for-a-very-good-reason

[shy1]

There is sad and unhappy. Neither drugs nor alcohol will cure that feeling.

Then there is depression. Although sadness may spin out of depression, it is not the same. In fact, medication may help with depression.

I have been wondering for a long time what part repetitive unnatural stress plays in contributing to and/or causing depression. My gut instinct tells me that it is probably the root cause of depression for most of us, but that remains only my theory.

[Chuzzle2006]

It's a good question he's posing isn't it? The problem is what came first..the chicken or the egg? I'm not sure if it matters though.

My life kind of sucks. Everytime I do a little something to make it better for me which means doing something that I feel will contribute to my happiness and light a spark inside me, I feel great.

I do believe in getting help though. Maybe it's medine, maybe it's just somebody to listen and work out your problems with. What I do believe the most though is that if you're living your life for somebody else and not yourself, you're always going to be depressed. It's just not in our genetic makeup to do that in life. I think that's why it always feels like ****.

I am of course talking about the evil ways of women here. Just kidding ladies.